\u0218i eu \u0219i Iulia (so\u021bia mea) venim dintr-un trecut traumatic, plin de violen\u021b\u0103 \u0219i brutalitate, alea au fost vremurile, putea fi \u0219i mai r\u0103u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Din fericire am reu\u0219it s\u0103 construim o rela\u021bie \u00een care \u00een primul r\u00e2nd a fost regula asta: f\u0103r\u0103 violen\u021b\u0103! A\u0219a ne-am crescut noi doi de c\u00e2nd ne-am cunoscut, unul l\u00e2ng\u0103 altul, \u0219i a\u0219a l-am crescut \u0219i pe Mihai, b\u0103iatul nostru, pe care nu l-am lovit niciodat\u0103 \u0219i nici nu \u00eemi aduc aminte s\u0103-l fi bruscat \u00een vreun fel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00centr-o sear\u0103, pe c\u00e2nd \u00eemi mai lingeam r\u0103nile trecutului peste care turnasem un pahar de vin, am v\u0103zut-o pe Iris, de care m-am \u00eendr\u0103gosti, care nu a fost vreo feti\u0219can\u0103 sexoas\u0103, ci un c\u0103\u021bel de care am sim\u021bit c\u0103 m-am \u00eendr\u0103gostit, \u00een modul cel mai s\u0103n\u0103tos \u0219i uman \u00een care po\u021bi s\u0103 te ata\u0219ezi de un c\u0103\u021bel. Am adoptat-o \u0219i am sim\u021bit iar\u0103\u0219i cum este s\u0103 fii iubit necondi\u021bionat \u0219i s\u0103 iube\u0219ti f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 a\u0219tep\u021bi altceva \u00een schimb dec\u00e2t iubire.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Primele zile au fost cumva grele, era un pic bolnav\u0103, avea doar dou\u0103 luni \u0219i f\u0103cea pipi peste tot, era speriat\u0103 de toate cele, dar u\u0219or, u\u0219or lucrurile s-au a\u0219ezat. \u00centr-o sear\u0103 st\u0103team la mas\u0103 to\u021bi trei (Eu, Iulia \u0219i Mihai) \u0219i vorbeam cu Iulia care ar fi strategia s\u0103 o educ\u0103m pe Iris \u0219i discutam despre ceea ce \u0219tiam noi (\u00eel iei pe c\u00e2ine, \u00eel bagi cu nasul \u00een locul necuvenit \u00een care a f\u0103cut \u201dchestii\u201d, \u00eel pedepse\u0219ti, noi stabilisem s\u0103 \u00eei d\u0103m cu ni\u0219te h\u00e2rtii la fund, \u201dcum se face\u201d ) la care Mihai a s\u0103rit ca ars: \u201dcum s\u0103 bate\u021bi c\u0103\u021belul?\u201d, noi, eu \u0219i Iulia, ne-am uitat unul la altul uimi\u021bi, din mai multe motive, dar \u0219i pentru c\u0103 noi nu prea \u0219tiam altfel. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00centre timp Iris s-a prins singur\u0103 c\u0103 la baie se fac chestii, c\u0103 ne-a v\u0103zut pe noi probabil, \u0219i nu mai e nevoie de nici o b\u0103taie, nu a luat nici un ziar la fund, dar eu am r\u0103mas cu \u00eentrebarea asta mare: dac\u0103 merge educa\u021bia cu dragoste cu un c\u00e2ine, de ce mama naibii \u00eenc\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 educ\u0103m oamenii cu pedepse, amenin\u021b\u0103ri, ru\u0219ine? Poate pentru c\u0103 nu avem destul\u0103 iubire?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u0218i eu \u0219i Iulia (so\u021bia mea) venim dintr-un trecut traumatic, plin de violen\u021b\u0103 \u0219i brutalitate, alea au fost vremurile, putea fi \u0219i mai r\u0103u. Din fericire am reu\u0219it s\u0103 construim o rela\u021bie \u00een care \u00een primul r\u00e2nd a fost regula asta: f\u0103r\u0103 violen\u021b\u0103! A\u0219a ne-am crescut noi doi de c\u00e2nd ne-am cunoscut, unul l\u00e2ng\u0103 altul, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.afgteam.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.afgteam.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.afgteam.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.afgteam.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.afgteam.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=29"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/blog.afgteam.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":32,"href":"https:\/\/blog.afgteam.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29\/revisions\/32"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.afgteam.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=29"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.afgteam.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=29"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.afgteam.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=29"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}